This week was the first presidential election that I
was able to vote in, and I had to send in my ballot from another country. I
wish that I had been able to actually vote in my hometown, but for now, an
absentee ballot will have to suffice. I’m also a little bitter because my
brother was also able to vote in my first election. But regardless, it was
exciting to be a part of a presidential election. And, on another note, my dad
was running for my hometown’s board of education (unopposed, but who’s counting
really?) so he was on the same ballot as the presidential candidates. Pretty
proud that I got to vote in the presidential election on the same ballot that I
got to vote for my dad. Watching the election coverage in Ireland was
incredibly interesting. I loved hearing what everyone in Ireland had to say
about our election. The thing I found most interesting, though, was the intense
interest people in Ireland took to our election. There was a television ad that
said, “It’s America’s decision, but it affects us all.” I never really thought
about the impact that our presidential election, that my own vote, could have
on people all over the world. This made me think about the attention that we
pay, as Americans, to other countries’ elections. How many of us know when the
next election is happening in foreign countries? How many of us know who the
current president is in those countries? This election really made me think
about America, and its place in the world, in a new light. This entire semester
has also made me want to be more aware of current events happening all over the
world, because so much of the world that I had never seen before has become so
much more real to me now that I have had the chance to visit these foreign
countries. For this presidential election, the Irish newscasters were undoubtedly
almost entirely pro-Obama. And I think that holds true to the general
population of Ireland as well. I read an article that said that Obama had 95%
of the Irish’s support, while Romney had 5%. I thought that one of the most
interesting aspects of watching the election abroad (particularly in Ireland)
was hearing the newscasters accepting and promoting Biden’s Irish heritage,
while rejecting Ryan’s. I would love to look into this more and see why they
are so accepting of one and so not accepting of the other as linking themselves
to the Irish culture. Ultimately, I stayed up as late as I could watching the
coverage, but ended up falling asleep, and woke up to the news that President
Obama had been reelected. In and of itself, not watching the news all the way
through the election was a new experience, and these past few weeks it has been
so interesting to me to see the way a foreign country views my home and our
election process and this particular election.
Thursday, 8 November 2012
Sunday, 4 November 2012
Week Thirteen: Wreck This Journal
Today, I got myself a journal at my new favorite
store, Vibes and Scribes. It’s one of the places I’ve become a regular this
semester, and I couldn’t be happier about being recognized when I go in there. It’s
this great little bookshop that has enough bestsellers that you know what’s
recently been released, but enough older books to remind you that people have
been writing things since long before you were born, and people will continue
to write things long after you’re gone. I love the feeling in there, and I could
peruse the shelves for hours. This time, hidden behind a stack of books about
modern art, I found a journal made by a woman named Keri Smith called “Wreck
This Journal.” Intrigued, I picked up the journal and examined it. It is, in
fact, a journal with the sole purpose (aside from being written in, of course)
of being destroyed. Each page comes with its own instructions. One page, for
example, says, “Step in dirt and then step on this page.” Another says, “Let
your inner critic take over and fill this page. Then throw the journal across
the room.” One of my favorites says, “Find a way to wear the journal.” The page
I am most intrigued by says, “Give your favorite page away.” I am fascinated by
the idea behind this journal, so naturally I bought it and ran home as fast as I
could to play with my new toy. I’ve only written in one page so far, but I love
the idea of recognizing that what you write is not above being ripped up or
thrown across the room, but that regardless of how ugly it may look after its
done being destroyed, it is still beautiful. I know this is the kind of thing
that would make some people I know absolutely cringe – I actually used to be one
of those people before I read a poem entitled “Marginalia.” I am looking forward,
though, to the production and then destruction, but continual appreciation of
my writing as I journey forward into my latest writing endeavor, to “Wreck This
Journal.”
Week Twelve: Birthdays, Visits, and Facing my Fears
This week was super-eventful because it was Claire’s
twenty first birthday, it was Halloween, our friends from Spain visited, and I once
again faced my fear of heights and kissed the Blarney Stone! Good news – now I can
talk my way out of anything, since I’ve gotten the “gift of the gab” that comes
with kissing the stone. Tuesday was Claire’s birthday, and as the night before
Halloween, of course it warranted another night of Halloween costumes. Casey, Claire,
Molly, and I dressed up as Disney princesses. I was Rapunzel, from one of my
all time favorite Disney movies, Tangled. Rather than shelling out money better
spent on international travel on a blonde wig, I simply let Molly braid my hair
into the craziest braid she could, while weaving flowers in as she went.
(Thanks, Mol! It turned out great!) On Halloween, we dressed up as holidays, in
costumes made up mostly of things found in each other’s closets and around our
apartments. I was New Year’s Eve, Casey was Valentine’s Day, and Molly was
Christmas. Our friends from Spain were getting into Cork at about 1:00 am, so
we had a quiet night and then went to get them from the bus station, and ended
up talking late into the night. On Friday we went to Blarney, and kissed the
stone. For those of you who know just how terrified I am of heights, or exactly
how kissing the Blarney Stone works, you’ll understand why I was freaking out. Basically
you lay down on the wall of the castle, and lean back over an open space and
kiss the stone attached to the wall. And as a result you can talk your way out
of any situation. Naturally. Except the man who is supposed to hold you
while you do this clearly saw the fear in my eyes and decided to have some fun with me.
He asked me if I was ticklish and when I told him now was not the time to find
out, he made a move like he was going to tickle me and I’m pretty sure tears
formed in my eyes. Luckily, when he saw this he eased up and helped me lower
myself down so I could kiss the stone as quickly as I could and get myself
back onto solid ground as soon as possible. But I am so glad I kissed the
stone, and am now able to claim bragging rights to the gift of the gab. And more than anything, my
experience with the Blarney Stone reminded me that as much as I am afraid of
something, especially heights, I am even more stubborn, so if someone challenges
me to something, you better believe I’m going to make it happen.
Sunday, 28 October 2012
Week Eleven: Peace Be With You
Before I came to Ireland, I was so excited to go to
mass while I was here. I thought to myself What
better place to strengthen your connection with God than the most peaceful
place in the world? What better place to soak up mass every Sunday than a
country that has so many citizens so sure in their beliefs? I thought that
mass in Ireland was going to be life-changing. And I was right. Sort of. Going to
mass here has changed me, and my outlook on my faith, but not in the ways you
might expect. My faith has also been strengthened while abroad, but again not
in the ways you might expect. I will never forget my first mass in Ireland. We had
just come back from a day-trip and Claire and I raced right from the train
station and snagged seats just as the mass was starting. But mass was over in
about twenty-five minutes, the priest rushed through everything as if he didn’t
even want to be there, there were no hymns, and they skipped right past the
sharing of the peace. Most of my other experiences at mass in Ireland have paralleled
this one, unfortunately, and it has caused the past four months to have been the
least church-going of my life. How am I supposed to get myself seriously into a
mass when the person leading the service is acting like he has somewhere better
to be, if only he can just get through this one thing first? And going an
entire mass without any hymns only feels appropriate if it’s Loyola’s Hopkins Court
Mass, with its candles and quiet devotion. And don’t even get me started on the
sharing of the peace. Usually a time to connect with family and friends and
even strangers surrounding you, the sharing of the peace is one of my favorite
moments of a mass. It’s a time for reuniting, for consoling those who you know
are going through a tough time, and for reminding people that you are there for
them with a gentle squeeze of their hand or a hug. Mass feels incomplete without
it, and I’ve felt incomplete leaving almost every mass I’ve attended in
Ireland. How has my faith been strengthened, you might be wondering? Well, for
one thing going to mass here has made me infinitely more thankful for my
churches both at home and at Loyola, that offer such life-giving services. It
has made me that much more aware of how lucky I am to have parents who have
always encouraged me to explore my own faith beliefs, and have supported all of
the decisions I have made. It has made me that much more excited to be back in
America, going to services in New Jersey and Baltimore that leave me feeling
refreshed and ready to take on the week. And, it has forced me to be creative. Instead
of looking for my affirmation of faith in mass every Sunday, I have been
seeking it more and more in daily life, something that I had always strived to
do, but had never fully understood until this semester. More and more this
semester I have begun to see manifestations of my faith in my daily life, and because
of this my faith and my outlook are evolving.
Saturday, 20 October 2012
Week Ten: We Are All Still the Same
This weekend, we went to go see The Perks of Being a
Wallflower. Now, this is one of my all time favorite books, and my copy is well
worn, so I had high expectations for the movie. I must say, they were all met. It
stayed very true to the book, which Molly and I put a high value on, and
overall it was a wonderful film. It got me thinking again about my time in
Pompeii and my thoughts on everyone being the same. To me, this movie is a reminder
that no matter how put together someone may seem from afar, we all have crazy
stuff going on in our lives that very few to no people know about. It reminded
me that things can get better no matter how bad they are, and that there is
always a cause for hope. And it reminded me that I shouldn’t only be thinking
about these things when I walk through an ancient city or see the movie
adaptation of one of my favorite books. We should be constantly discerning,
constantly evaluating our surroundings and what we’ve always wanted to change
about them but never have. And we should start making those changes. I love The
Perks of Being a Wallflower for many reasons, but today I love it because it
reminded me just how lucky I am to be having this experience abroad with so
many people I care so much about, with so many people back home to miss. Today,
I love The Perks of Being a Wallflower because it reminded me that we are still
all the same.
Tuesday, 16 October 2012
Week Nine: We Are All the Same
Week Nine: Eating, Praying, Loving Rome
Tuesday, 9 October 2012
Week Eight: Trip of Miracles Part 2 - Barcelona
Our time in Barcelona was fairly smooth, and I bought
some of my first gifts there, and was even able to watch the Real Madrid –
Barcelona game in a travel bar. Though I’m partial to Lionel Messi, I really wanted
Real Madrid to win, but I value my life too much to have cheered for Real
Madrid aloud during the game. Ultimately, the game was a clash of the titans,
with Messi (FCB) and Cristiano Ronaldo (Real Madrid) each scoring two goals for
the game to end in a tie. We were also able to have the best gelato of any of our lives. We went back to the same little stand three times because nothing we had ever had could compare. They had delicious strawberry, nutella, and other flavors, but their chocolate was what got me hooked. I am a self-proclaimed chocolate ice cream addict, but all of my friends and family know it's true. The way to win me over, chocolate ice cream. I can almost always be counted on to order a simple chocolate ice cream, either plain or with chocolate sprinkles, over a fancier dessert. I'm usually up for trying new things, but sometimes, I just know that chocolate ice cream is the only thing that will do. Luckily, we made it to the stand before it closed both times we went at night (we weren't sure what time it closed so we had to just hope we would make it in time). We may have (definitely) run down the streets of Barcelona to make sure we got there in time, but it was well worth it. That is some chocolate gelato I am going to remember for a very long time. Our last “trip of miracles” encounter happened on our
way to the Barcelona airport. We were flying out of an airport outside the city
because it cost dramatically less, and so we nicknamed the airport “Cheap
Barcelona.” To get to Cheap Barcelona, however, we had to take a bus from the
city, and since our flight was so early, this was a 4:00 am bus. We got there
and encountered a mob scene. There were tons of people waiting for the same bus
we were hoping to take. And we didn’t even have tickets yet. So we sent Claire
and Casey up to get tickets, and we prepared to fight our way onto the bus.
Molly and I brought out our inner Jersey-girl and secured us all seats as soon
as the doors to the bus opened. Normally I am opposed to that type of Black
Friday-esque insanity, but this was the trip of miracles, and we had to get on
that bus. Once settled in at the airport, we let ourselves experience the
delirium we had been trying to hold together before we knew we were going to
get on our flight, and we made it home without a hitch, successfully completing
our first trip outside Ireland, and (hopefully) our only trip that can be
deemed “a trip of miracles.”
Week Eight: Trip of Miracles Part 1 - Madrid
Hello, first new country of the semester! Our
trip to Spain this weekend has officially been deemed the trip of miracles.
First of all, we were meeting my friend from home, Anne, who is studying abroad
in Manchester right now, at the Dublin Airport. So we took the bus from Cork to
Dublin, thinking that the 8:00 am bus would be plenty of time to get to the
airport and take our time with things. We were wrong. With our plane boarding at
1:10 pm, we arrived to the Dublin Airport at exactly 12:50. Naturally we
sprinted through to get our tickets scanned and get onto the flight. Except
Claire’s ticket wouldn’t scan (we’ll blame that one on the internet at the
library, right Claire?) so she had to run back, have them print a new ticket,
and then go through the process of having it scanned again. Then going through security
the person in front of me was called over for having suspicious items in their
bag, but first the security officer motioned for me to come over until he
realized that it was someone else’s bag. After having a near-heart attack, I joined
everyone in running through the airport. We made it to the gate just in time,
and I don’t think I’ve ever been so happy to see Anne. The first thing she
tells me is that she almost wasn’t allowed to get on her flight, but was able
to get them to let her on. We spent an incredible two days in Madrid,
culminating in a trip to a bull fight on Friday night. I wasn’t too big on the
idea of going to a bull fight, and it is safe to say that I don’t ever need to
go to another, but I am glad I got to experience Spanish culture in that way. I
learned that the bulls are raised by families who then donate them to the
fight, and that it is considered one of the highest honors to have your bull
participate in a bull fight. I also learned that while people in Spain do eat
bull meat, they never eat the meat of the bulls from the bull fight. Which seems
like such a waste to me, but I was pleased to learn that the fights used to
take place every night, but now are only on weekends. Still not great, but at
least it’s an improvement. The highlight of the experience, though, was sitting
with Erin and talking to the Spanish woman who sat next to us, Theresa. She was
about seventy years old, and told us that she spoke zero English but wanted to
talk to us. Together Erin and I managed to speak enough Spanish to hold a decent
conversation with her. She told us about all of the places in America she’s
been (she put both Erin and me to shame, I must say), and all of the places she
still plans on visiting. And every other sentence she said was that Erin and I were
nice, beautiful girls and that she loved us, which was incredibly affirming. She
also said that she doesn’t like the bull fights, but that she goes with her
best friend, who loves them. Her friend was sitting on Theresa’s other side,
and barely said two words two us, she was so invested in the bull fight. After
the fight, we were able to meet up with our friends from Loyola who are
studying in Alcalá, which is just outside Madrid. We went to a tapas bar (if
you have never heard of/had tapas, stop whatever you are doing right now and
find somewhere that serves tapas – once again, my experience with food has been
forever changed) that serves you unlimited tapas as long as you order one
drink. Done and done. Our Loyola friends were going back to Alcalá for the
night, and even though we were originally planning on staying in Madrid, we
decided to take a spontaneous trip out to Alcalá with them. Because why should
we stay a half an hour away from our friends we haven’t seen in months while
knowing full well they are so close by? So we hopped on the train, and went to Alcalá.
I got to see Tori’s apartment and meet her host mom (thanks for having me over,
Tor!) before we met up with everyone else. Somehow we managed to get ourselves
onto the last bus out of Alcalá and into Madrid. We then slept at our hostel
for a grand total of one hour before we had to check out and get to the bus to
Barcelona (which is an 8 hour bus ride through the Spanish countryside, by the
way). As we’re checking out of our hostel, the man behind the desk tells us
that he is not going to let us leave because we haven’t paid in full yet, even
though we did when we first arrived. To her credit, Molly held her ground and
said that we had paid, despite the fact that we were all bone-tired, having
just had a whirlwind adventure to Alcalá and then less than an hour of sleep.
We showed our receipt and made it to the bus. But Casey and Claire didn’t have
their tickets printed out, so they went in search of a ticket booth, and the
rest of us got on the bus. At this point we figured out that you only needed
your passport to get on the bus, not your printed ticket, but we had no way of
telling them this. So we just hoped for the best, and with less than one minute
left, they came running onto the bus and we made it just in time.
Monday, 1 October 2012
Week Seven: Ring of Kerry
Wednesday, 26 September 2012
Week Six: Edible Flowers and Cheesy Scones with Father Linnane
Friday, 21 September 2012
Week Five: Survived First Exam
This week, I survived my first Irish final exam! The
modules (classes) here are structured so differently from home. Our Folklore
Early Start had two written papers and then an in-class exam, and that is
considered a lot of work for one module. As different as the school system is, I
really have learned a lot in my Early Start, and it’s been great getting a jump
on getting acclimated to living in the city, and meeting new friends. Plus, now
I’m an expert on traditional Irish housing, Irish fairies, and wedding
traditions. Not too bad for only one month into living here.
Sunday, 16 September 2012
Week Four: County Girls Forever
Closest I'll be to home until December! |
Sunday, 9 September 2012
Week Three: Butter and Bells
Wednesday, 29 August 2012
Week Two: Tea and Scones, Scones and Tea
Sunday, 26 August 2012
Week One: "Damn American kids. Happens every year."
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